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How do I save My Marriage?

Me and My husband Have been falling apart for about 6 mounths now, He dosent want to hug,me , kiss me, make love he also wont let me hold him at night anymore. He say he just wants to be left alone but it is breaking my heart. I feel lost someone give me some advise to help save our marriage, I love him so much and would do anything to save this marriage.

I am sorry to hear you are in this situation.

Some people do like to have alone time, whereas some people like to be with their partners 24/7. Obviously this causes difficulties in a marriage, but with good communication, these things can be worked out.

In the meantime, you should leave your partner alone, just as he wishes. Now is the time to give time to yourself. You need to work on yourself and boost your self-esteem. This will have two fold results.

Firstly, you will feel better about yourself. This will give you confidence to maybe do things you have not done before.

Secondly, your husband will see you as more self-sufficient, capable, and less needy of him. This will make you more attractive to him as a person.

If you have any good girl friends, perhaps mates you have had from school or work, now is a good time to start going out with them. Not to get drunk and look at other men, but just to socialize and develop a ring of support around you. Sometimes when you talk about your problems with sympathetic listeners, then your problems seem less overwhelming.

For help with boosting your self-esteem you can visit www.savemarriagesecrets.org where you can get a free ebook called Personal Development Advice which you may find useful.

Best wishes,

Red Stripe

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