Men Leave Their Wives

Why Men Leave Their Wives – And How To Keep Yours From Leaving You

If you have reason for concern that your husband might leave you then it should interest you to know why men leave their wives. The answer may not be what you think, either. Here is some advice on how to keep your husband from leaving you and experiencing one of the worst times of your life.

Marriage statistics paint a foreboding picture. Over half of all marriages will end in divorce, many times after just a few years. All too often the relationship ends when the husband walks out the door never to return.

What goes wrong in these marriages and how can it be prevented?

There are cliches that leave one thinking it is women who are emotionally needy, and maybe overall that is correct. The mistake, though, is to think that men have only one need in marriage and it is the physical aspect of the relationship. Not true.

Men and women both have needs that need to be met for the relationship to be healthy and long lasting. When a man cheats on his wife it is common for others to think he was not getting any “action” at home or that he went after someone younger and prettier.

Usually that is not the case. Sometimes the man’s friends will even wonder what he saw in the woman he cheated with. Physical attractiveness is not always the most predominant component. Yes, maintain your appearance for your husband (and yourself), but failing to do so is not necessarily why men leave their wives.

What can cause a man to cheat on his wife, and ultimately leave his wife, is if he simply does not feel respected and admired in is own home by his own wife. He is then quite susceptible to another woman who shows him some admiration and really looks up to him getting between him and his wife.

When a man is belittled, nagged at and even taunted by his wife then he probably could care less to even sleep in the same room with her let alone in the same bed. Maybe your husband is no Bob Vila when it comes to fixing things around the house; and maybe you have no idea what he does at work or understand it.

Does that mean he wants to be put down? Just because he has tried to fix the toilet ten times and it still runs constantly does not mean he deserves no respect. (I have seen toilets continue to malfunction after professional plumbers have tried repeatedly to fix them!).

The point is that you married him for some qualities. Concentrate on those qualities. If your husband makes good money at his job but stinks at fixing the roof, then tell him you would rather he hired a roofer so he can spend the time with you instead.

Maybe your husband spends too much time at work and that has caused strife in the marriage. Does he feel pressured to make money because of the lifestyle that you have helped encourage or even demanded? Ask him how you can help relieve that strain; but be willing to comply with the suggestions he then offers – remember, you asked.

The point is that no man can feel his home is his castle if the queen of the house makes him feel like the court jester, janitor or exiled ruler. A man wants to know his woman respects him, at least in some area of his life.

If you want to keep your husband from leaving you then find ways of showing him not only that you love him but that you also appreciate him, respect him and admire him. I do suggest making gradual, not radical, changes in the way you treat him, otherwise he is not likely to believe you are sincere.

The easiest way to appear sincere to him is to really be sincere. When you have a few minutes to yourself you should make a list of the qualities in your man that made you want to have him as your husband in the first place. Look for new qualities that may have emerged since you have been married.

Certainly your husband is not perfect, none is; just like no wife if perfect. Even if you feel he does not treat you right I would encourage you to start treating him right. Chances are the changes in your marriage will be so noticeable that he will want to make sure he is treating you right.

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About the Author

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Mr. Scott has enjoyed assisting people with relationship and marriage issues for many years now. Please note that he may occasionally receive some form of compensation when recommending other experts services or products.

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