How Do I Save My Relationship
How can I save my relationship?

My fiance and I had twins 11 weeks ago. Our relationship has been suffering since. Besides normal disagreements and rifts we have to take care of our children. We are sleep deprived and angry at one another all the time. I love my children and hubby to be with all my heart. I really want us to be a family. Had anyone else had this problem? Is it going to end? Or what can I do to change things? I feel like we should be celebrating our miracles…so what’s going on?

1. Communicate: Talk to your partner about sexual problems and feelings you may have to see how you can work them out together.EX: If you have a desire to use sex toys, you should share this with him or her!

2. Avoid arguments: Choose your battles to have more positive feelings towards your partner.

3. Think positively about sex: Don’t think of sex as a chore, but instead as a fun and loving experience that you can share.

4. Spend time together: Get away from the hectic pace of life and just have fun together to get your spark back.

5. Show affection: Outside of the bedroom, show affection to your partner, and you’ll be more attracted to them sexually.

6. Do something new: Introduce a little novelty into your lives together, and you’ll produce dopamine, a chemical that helps fuel sex drive.

7. Take a vacation: Sometimes the hectic pace of daily life can get in the way of sex, so step out of your usual routine to spice things up.

8. Take a deep breath: The scent of your partner’s sweat can be a booster for your sex drive.

9. Go out on a date: Support your emotional connection by going on a date, and focus on building your relationship.

10. Share responsibilities: If you’re not having sex because you or your partner is burned out or too tired, learn to more evenly balance your responsibilities between you.

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