My husband & I have been separated for months. I still love him & want to work things out, although we have both moved on…he has his own place in another town miles from us & I have my own home now. I have told him about my feelings, but he ignores them & tries to run away from them. I am the one who filed for divorce because he had changed in so many ways & was on something that had changed him very much. He was totally upsetting our daughters & myself all the time. I couldn’t take it anymore. Now I want him back, but the way he used to be. Is it hopeless? What do I do? Our divorce is not over yet, but could be this month. I forgot to mention we have been married 22 years..almost 23.