Coping With A Break Up
help! coping with a break up?
My boyfriend & I of over a year have been broken up for about 4 months. We don’t talk whatsoever. Even when we make eye contact we don’t say hi. (We see eachother around a lot at school, church, same group of friends, etc.) There is no hatred or hostility between us; we just aren’t friendly. Technically, he broke up w/ me & holds the power to bring us back together. I’m not sure exactly where he stands & how is doing/handling the break up, but I’m miserable. I feel so pathetic that it’s been this long & i’m still not over it. Well, the other day, after we hung out w/ a group of friends, he asked one of MY good friends randomly, “does she think i don’t want to talk to her? because i do.” My friend responds w/ “it’s not that, she is just putting up a wall, etc.” & she asks, “why do you want to talk to her now..of all times.?” & he responds ” i still care about her so much and i want to know what’s going on in her life..etc” my question is, why is he shooting for it now? or ever? in fact
